January 31, 2020

I am on a college-visit road trip this week with my daughter Elizabeth. It’s an emotional time for me! And personally, when I get emotional, anxiety is lurking just around the corner. Of course, my observant spiritual Enemy knows this about me. So, he took every opportunity he could to poke at that tendency, including, but not limited to, car problems 7.5 hours from home—and 7.5 hours from our destination. For me, this spiritual battle with anxiety is my heart vacillating between fearing the worst-case scenarios and wholeheartedly trusting a sovereign King and loving Father with my life. The better, wiser perspective is obvious—simple, but not easy.  

This week’s Bible story from the book of Esther is uniquely cool for several reasons: 1. The name of God is not mentioned anywhere in the text—although His fingerprints are all over it. 2. The hero is a heroine! 3. It raises all kinds of contemporary cultural issues for us to ponder (e.g., society’s emphasis on physical beauty, government corruption, gender roles, civil disobedience, racial oppression). 4. The narrative contains some of the best and most ironic plot twists of all time. 

But best of all, the book of Esther is a study of trusting God’s loving sovereignty in the face of literally the worst-case scenario. I encourage you to curl up by the fire this weekend and read this short story. Notice all the places where crucial events “just so happened…” Notice God, at work, behind the scenes, directing things to work out exactly opposite of what you’d expect.

He is trustworthy. When we can’t see how something can possibly be “for our best,” we can rest in the wisdom and care of our God. He never takes His eye off you. Your circumstances may be out of your control—but they are never out of His. He’s got this. 

Praying as we wrestle between fear and trust,

January 23, 2020

When you look back at your past—are you plagued with regret? When you look ahead to the future—are you filled with fear? 

This week in The Gospel Project for Kids we are looking at the book of Zechariah. He had an amazing message that spoke to the past, as well as the future. 

Zechariah was a prophet who delivered God’s Word to His people. Zechariah’s message had two main themes: look back at the past and look ahead to the future.

Often when I look back at my life, I can feel overwhelming regret. Things I didn’t do that I wish I had. And many, many things I did and said that I wish I could take back. God’s people had many generations-worth of past sins to rightly fill them with guilt. But Zechariah’s message to the current generation of God’s people was to repent: renounce the sins of the past and live in the freedom God has secured for you.  

But what about the future? I confess it’s easy for me to feel anxious about tomorrow, next week, and next year. As the great C.S. Lewis put it, “We are not necessarily doubting that God will do the best for us; we are wondering how painful the best will turn out to be.”

Zechariah, too, had some fear-inducing words about the future. Words about God’s judgment and wrath against His enemies. But Zechariah also tells another story of the future. A story of a new king who would bring righteousness and humility to His reign on earth. A prophecy of King Jesus, 400 years before His birth.

So, although we don’t know all of what our future holds, we know that if we follow Jesus, we are no longer God’s enemies. No longer under wrath, but under grace. No longer slaves to fear, but adopted children.

This week’s lesson is one of trusting God with our past, present and future. I am praying you will be set free from the shackles of fear and regret and be free to walk with your head held high as a child of the one true King.

For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” (Romans 8:15).

January 17, 2020

There’s an old saying that says, “You can never go home again.” If you’ve ever tried returning to your hometown after a long absence, you know what I mean. Even if everything at home stays exactly the same, you have not; so it is very difficult, if not impossible, to ever return to things the way they were. If you try, you’ll usually be disappointed—no matter what the Hallmark Channel tells you.

Imagine returning “home” to a place you’ve never actually been—but have only heard about from your parents’ and grandparents’ stories of the “good old days.” The days before war and exile and slavery. The days when you could worship God freely and enjoy your own language and culture and land.   

Maybe that’s how the Israelites felt as they returned to Judah after being captive in Babylon for 70 years. Excited to finally be free. Amazed to be returning to the Promised Land, literally God’s Country. Walking for days to get back home again. You come around the last bend and up over the last hill and you look down at Jerusalem and see…Desolation. Ruins. Disappointment. 

I love how honest God’s Word is. God tells us the truth about life. Life is no fairy tale where one kiss makes a happy ending. Life is a series of ups and downs, one step forward and two steps back. Life is a challenge. Have you noticed? Even after God miraculously steps in and frees His people from captivity, that doesn’t mean it’s clear sailing from then on. There’s going to be work to do. There’s going to be opposition. There’s going to be trouble. 

Let’s remember to also teach our kids the truth about life. Life is hard. And that’s okay. It is meant to be. Trouble doesn’t mean God isn’t with us and it doesn’t automatically mean we’ve done something wrong. The truth is God’s plan is simply bigger than we can see and His plan includes our troubles. The truth is, God is bigger than our problems and He promises to take care of us through them, no matter what. 

Consider this week’s story in light of whatever your family is facing right now. This week’s story is about overcoming: poverty, discouragement, neighborhood opposition, legal woes, relational tensions. In the midst of the trouble, it is difficult to see how it might end well. But this story (and our story) ends well. Because, as always, God is faithful.  

He was faithful to keep all His promises and send us our Savior. Jesus showed us how to face trouble faithfully. And He won us victory over our worst problems: Sin, death, and the grave. Hallelujah!

“I have told you these things, so that in Me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” John 16:33 

Peace & Love,

January 11, 2020

Well, we are about a week into this New Year and I’m still feeling pretty good about the goals I’ve set. I’m not gonna lie, waking up earlier is tough! But the time margin it provides for putting first things first is a game changer for the rest of the day. 

I might be off to a good start, but I’m absolutely certain I’m going to fail at keeping the New Year’s resolutions I’ve written down. My best intentions wane over time and my motivations get a little murky as my old habits creep back in charge. Can you relate?

This week’s Bible story in The Gospel Project is all about how our faithful Father is not like that. When He makes a promise, no matter how impossible it seems, no matter how long we have to wait, He keeps it.

In the Bible, God often spoke His promises to His people through messengers called prophets. God promised through the Prophet Jeremiah that His people would be in exile for 70 years—but after that He would bring them back to their homeland in Judah.  One of the best promises God ever made and kept was sending His Son: our savior, and the greatest messenger from Heaven of all time. Jesus is the perfect Prophet.

God always keeps His promises and He does just what He says.

So, if (when) you find yourself missing some of your goals this New Year, take heart. We may fall short, but we have a Father in Heaven who is always dependable and true. Why not find a few promises of His that encourage you and commit them to memory?

“Long ago, at many times and in many ways, God spoke to our fathers by the prophets, but in these last days, He has spoken to us by His Son.” Hebrews 1:1.

Rest in His faithfulness this weekend.

January 4, 2020

I love newness. A new calendar, new goals, a new fresh start. I am excited to be in a new decade! Welcome to the 2020s people! 

In NCBC Kids ministry, we begin this new year in a section of Scripture that understandably doesn’t get a lot of press in children’s Bible storybooks: The book of Obadiah.

That actually excites me quite a bit. How cool is it that our kids will be hearing from a part of the Bible with which us parents may not even be familiar?

The prophet Obadiah discusses a conflict between Edom and Israel that is like a long sibling rivalry. This is what can happen to people and families who do not learn how to manage conflict and forgive each other. That alone can serve as a good warning and teaching tool for our kids—and let’s face it—for ourselves.

But I also encourage you to lean into a larger concept we don’t like to think about in 2020s America: God’s justice and holy wrath. It is more comfortable to talk about God’s love and deliverance but that only tells a portion of the truth. This week is a great time to be reminded that it is only in God’s great mercy that we find the real hope of newness: a new creation, a new body, a new sinless nature. Because Jesus took on the punishment of God that we and Edom and Israel deserved, we get to have the deliverance and salvation of God. That’s the gospel and it is very good news.